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Living Well
Real-life reminders to slow down, reset, protect your peace, and create a life that feels good -- not just one that looks productive.


How I Stay Organized When I Have a Lot Going On
My everyday planning essentials. Because a soft life still requires a plan. I have a lot going on. A full-time job. A business. Notary work. Real estate school. A home. A husband. Content. Random ideas that pop into my head at the most inconvenient times. And, of course, all the regular life stuff that somehow never stops needing attention. And somewhere in the middle of all of that, I still want a life that actually feels good. Over the years, I've learned that staying org

Lisa Tolan-Hardy
Oct 84 min read


What's in the Jar? The Oils and Butters We Love at Sunday Self.
The oils and butters behind some of your Sunday Self favorites. Take a peek at the ingredient list on a Sunday Self product and chances are you'll spot an oil or butter, or a few of them. They're some of our favorite ingredients to work with, and not simply because they sound good on a label. Different oils and butters bring their own feel, texture and characteristics to a formula. Some are rich and substantial. Others are lighter and silkier. Some help give a product structu

Lisa Tolan-Hardy
Sep 94 min read


Before the Week Starts Week-ing (and it more than likely will) ...
Set The Tone For The Week Set the tone before Monday starts making demands Before you decide what you need to do, decide how you want to feel. Sunday has a funny way of becoming Monday’s waiting room. Before you know it, you’re thinking about the emails, appointments, errands, deadlines, laundry, and the seventeen other things waiting for you when the week begins. But what if, before making the list, you asked yourself a different question? How do I want this week to feel? C

Lisa Tolan-Hardy
Aug 232 min read


Journaling for Your Soft Life
Soft mornings, warm coffee, and your Soft Life Journal. Ready to romanticize your mornings and build the life you deserve? This 30-day guided journal is your daily ritual for slowing down, reflecting, and glowing up from the inside out. ✨ Life moves fast. One minute you’re sipping your coffee in peace, the next you’re spiraling after a hard conversation with your realtor and wondering if you should just move to a tiny cabin in the woods. (It’s me. I’m “you.”) That’s why I’v

Lisa Tolan-Hardy
Jul 11, 20252 min read


Welcome to The Soft Life Society: Cozy Living & Self-Care Blog
🛁 Welcome to Sunday Self: Your Soft Life Self-Care Destination Where soft glam meets self-care, and your slow mornings are sacred. Soft Life living with cozy self-care rituals. I’ve been quietly (and chaotically 😆) building something cozy behind the scenes—and now, you're officially in on it. 🧖🏽♀️ What is Sunday Self & How It Supports Your Soft Life? Sunday Self is a lifestyle brand rooted in the art of soft living. That means rituals over routines, curated comfort over

Lisa Tolan-Hardy
Jul 6, 20251 min read
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